First time pegging

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Pegging can be terrifying. I mean, I'm asking you to strap on this foreign waist harness you've never used, attach this odd appendage to your body, and then make it pleasurable for your partner - who's probably been fantasizing about this for a long, long time. What part of that sounds not scary!? It's no wonder that a lot of women refuse to try pegging at all; it's a whole lot of responsibility and expectation to put on someone who has probably never "penetrated" anything else in their whole lives - or even thought about doing it before.

However, with just a bit of planning and some research, you'll feel a lot more prepared to give your first pegging. It can seem pretty scary at first, but after reading some articles, spending some time picking the right itemsand having a supportive first partner, you'll find that pegging might not be as scary as you initially assumed. So, here I am to offer a step-by-step guide to getting ready to give your first pegging. Follow the steps if you need a comprehensive guide. You're also welcome to skip around as necessary to make the guide work for you.

I first time pegging want to cover the already-covered ground, but in order to enjoy your first pegging, you'll need to buy a harness and a dildo. I really, really recommend against a "strapless strap-on dildo" for beginners! These kinds of kits can be difficult and frustrating to deal with even with experience. So, we've reached the point where you're definitely sure you're going to be pegging someone at some point.

You have your harness and your dildo. You can jump straight into the next steps, but you may find that planning ahead takes away some of the stress. Planning ahead involves looking into a couple different things to be as prepared as possible. First, do some research to grow your knowledge pool. You need to know the basics of anal sex if you're going to be penetrating anyone anally. There are lots of articles on anal sex here on Kinkly, so read them and pay attention. If you choose to forgo the research, at least choose an easily-takeable dildo size and use much more lube than you think you need.

For bonus points, check out some pegging and femdomme websites and read about peoples' experiences - from both the receiver and the penetrator side. This will give you an idea of how things have went, some tips for your own use, and some ideas of what your partner might have in mind. Now that you know how to comfortably penetrate someone anally, let's talk about about the strap-on aspect. Honestly, you need to get comfortable wearing the harness and "having a penis.

Get a feel for how it fits on your body. When you get bored or feel up to it, slide your faux penis between the couch cushions and practice some thrusting. Lie down on the ground and practice some thrusting there. Most vagina-owning people haven't grown up with the practice of thrusting and humping motions, and it's going to take a bit to learn how to make those movements feel "comfortable" to you. So the more practice you can do with no expectations, the better you'll feel about the pegging - and more confident about what you can do with your partner. For bonus points, purchase an inexpensive male masturbation sleeve or borrow a partner's, put a condom on your dildoand practice penetrating and enjoying that sensation.

You can even slide it between the couch cushions again for more practice that way. Again, the more comfortable and practiced you are, the more smoothly things will go later on. Finally, it's probably time to have a talk with your partner.

I'm not sure if you're doing this because your partner initially brought up the idea. If they didn't, it's time to bring up the idea. Talk about why it appeals to you, and talk about what you'd like to do. This is also the point where you should find out what they have in mind, too. Are they imagining an intimate, romantic pegging session, or do they want to be dominated and humiliated? What are you comfortable with doing? How much anal experience do first time pegging have - and what dildos will be a good fit for them?

Use this conversation to make sure the both of you are on the same with your upcoming pegging scene. If, for some chance, your partner expresses interest in pegging, but first time pegging never used anal toys before, it's time to put the harness away. As a beginner yourself, I strongly, strongly suggest you do first time pegging peg anyone who hasn't had anal experience. Remember that you have no sensation in your faux penis. This can make it hard to judge what's going on. When your receiver also has no idea what's going on with their own body Instead, take some time to enjoy some loving anal pleasure with toys and fingers for a month or two.

Give your receiver time to learn what anal sensations feel like - and what they shouldn't feel like. Ideally, you want your receiver to be able to tell you when things are going too far. There's a line between "pleasurable stretching" and "painful stretching. There are definitely men out there who refuse to do anything anally until they've been pegged by a woman for the first time. Please use caution if anyone demands this of you. Pegging can be just as special down the line - especially when your receiver knows what's going on with their own body.

Now, let's get ready for the "big event. If you'd like, the two of you can negotiate with your bottom bringing supplies ahead of time instead. If you'll be doing any anal play with your fingers, have your fingernails cut entirely down. Let's be honest here for a moment. Depending on the diet and bowel movements first time pegging your receiver, things can be a bit more messy than you might have anticipated.

If your receiver would like to do a couple enema rounds before the pegging, that will reduce the mess, but there's still a chance there will be some. For that reason, be prepared for things ahead of time. Unless you're doing deep fisting or intensely large toys, you don't need to be prepared for much. Smaller peggings may involve smears and a little bit of dirty lube. If you're not particularly bothered by a little poop, you may not take the same precautions I recommended in the paragraphs, but these precautions are what I'd recommend if the idea of any mess is what's causing you pause.

Harnesses are tricky little things. Some of them are more tricky than others, but unless you're really practiced which I suggested you do in Step 3it can be hard to make it look "sexy" while you're lost in trying to figure out where that damn strap goes. For that reason, if you want to look sexy while putting on your harness.

Tighten your harness so that it fits you properly. Don't want to put that much effort into it before your first pegging? No worries! Just do it a bit half-way. Nobody says you need to put on the harness in front of your partner. Before your session, you can excuse yourself into another room to put on your harness and dildo. You're just "gathering what you need. If you like the idea of giving the visual where your partner gets to watch you "tighten it all up" through the buckles some people really like that!

Put on your harness in private, do a cursory look to see what all you need to tighten, and then walk into the room where your partner is at, saying "Are you ready to go, honey? thousands receiving hot new sex related articles, goodies, and great deals. Ready to play? I hope so! Now, you can choose to wait to put on your strap-on harness until you're literally ready for the pegging, but I personally prefer to wear the strap-on harness and dildo during all of the foreplay as well.

Not only did I spend a pretty penny on my harness and want to show it off, but there's a certain bit of added anticipation if your partner can constantly see the toy you'll be pegging them with later. To start, I recommend enjoying whatever foreplay activities the two of you regularly enjoy.

If that includes an intense make-out first time pegging, then do that! If that usually includes some sort of kink activity or service activity, do that. If you're feeling confident, you can include your dildo and harness in your foreplay as well. Have them "jerk off" your cock for you. You can slide your harness to the side and allow them to orally pleasure your actual naughty bits. It's really up to what you're comfortable with - and what the two of you enjoy. Now that your foreplay is in the bag, it's time to start preparing your partner.

Have them get into whatever position is comfortable for them. If you're both new to anal sensations, I recommend your partner get on their hands and knees with their ass in the air. If they prefer to lie down, you can also elevate their hips with pillows or sex furniture to have access to the butt while they're on their back.

I recommend putting one of those puppy p down underneath your receiver's butt to catch any mess or lube. Once your partner is ready, slip on a glove and lubricate your fingers thoroughly. Start off with one finger and gently tease the entrance. You can use your other hand to stroke their genitals, or you can just let them focus on the anal sensations.

Slowly enjoy teasing them. When you're ready, slowly slide a single finger into your partner. When they're pushing back into your fingers or when they express interest for moreyou can slip in another finger. Don't push things. If your partner isn't ready for more, that's fine. As long as your partner can comfortably get two fingers in during a warm-up, you'll be able to find a dildo that they can take during a pegging.

Now it's time to move onto the actual pegging. Nervous about looking silly? If you're nervous about seeming silly in front of your partner, there's a simple solution: a blindfold. Make it a natural part of your scene to add the blindfold to their face.

Now, any hesitations, fumbling with your harness, or other delays will just be part of their "anticipation.

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A Step-By-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging