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Thank you, Jessie Beth! Is it anything like real-time, face-to-face Dominance, and submission relationships? No, not at all. That said, it is still very real and intense for those of us in online or Long Distance Relationships LDRand often can and will lead to a real-time RT relationship.

In my opinion, the most important thing to remember here is safety. There are a few things you can do to keep yourself safer while in an online relationship, or looking for someone to begin a relationship with online:. I will go over a few of the answers here. They simply do not face to face as live-in relationships are. While I am not living with Master right now and am, in my opinion, way too far away from Him right now, He gives me orders and I follow them as I would if I were living with Him. The orders may be altered a bit, but they are still there.

I honestly was not looking when I met Master, but it just sort of took off from there. The emotions, desires, and feelings, while different than in real-time, are still there and are still incredibly intense. One last word about safety:. Beware of predators. Many people out there use the internet as a tool for online bdsm relationship own pleasure, and nothing else. Someone who has contacted you because they truly wish to get to know you better is incredibly unlikely to 'order' you to undress on the webcam and perform some BDSM act. This is a huge red flag. Also, beware those who have other relationships and are not honest about them.

All these safety precautions aside, the internet is a wonderful tool for meeting people. If you are safety conscious while being honest and true to yourself, you'd be surprised what can come of it. Every month I'll update you on the latest from Submissive Guide and you'll get first access to new resources, offers and events. Staying Safe Online There are a few things you can do to keep yourself safer while in an online relationship, or looking for someone to begin a relationship with online: First and foremost do not, under any circumstances, give out your home address before you have really gotten to know this person.

Wait a few weeks or even a few months. These online bdsm relationship may happen once you are in a stable, secure, full-time real-time relationship, but until then keep these things to yourself. If the person you are chatting with asks for your home address after a few days and you decline, they should respect that, they should say they respect that, and then they should leave it alone. If they do not, that is a big red flag for you.

Reconsider this relationship! One other thing you must think hard about is exchanging photos of yourself. This is especially important if the photos are nude, fetish or kinky. Once a photo is on the internet, you no longer have control over who sees it. These also apply to webcam usage. It's very easy to download a program that can capture what the user is looking at on online bdsm relationship computer screen. These can be saved, and then ed to many websites.

The community I live in is quite conservative and the local BDSM community is incredibly small and quite frankly not safe in my opinion. As such, I am choosing to be in a long distance relationship with my Master until I can be closer to Him. And so long as the Dominant or submissive is fully honest with all of their partners, can be quite successful. If this is you, I urge you to be honest with your real-time partner. While there often is no sex involved, it is still another relationship and in my opinion, you owe it to your real-time partner, to be honest about those needs and how you are getting them fulfilled.

And you also owe it to your Dom or sub that you have another relationship. To see if it's something that they may be interested in for a real-time experience. While I do agree that it is nothing like the real-time thing, there are many similarities, which I will go into shortly, and can be a good primer to see if something more intense would be a right fit for that individual. A fourth reason is that the person simply does not want the real-time thing.

They want the, for lack of better words, pseudo- or watered-down version of a Dominance and submission relationship that an online relationship can provide. My opinion of this is: whatever makes them happy. If that's how they get their needs fulfilled, then all the more power to them. How Do You Submit Online? When it comes to giving tasks, orders and controlling the submissive's life, orders can be given in many ways. Please remember the safety talk above. Most of these will come after you have established the trust with your partner: A favorite of mine is text messages.

I love that Master has the ability to text me an order. How does He know I did it though? Well, that is You can take photos of your completed task and picture mail them to your Master. This is something you real-timers can do too! While you are chatting online you can turn on your webcam and your Master can watch you actually perform the task. Simple honesty. There are some things where you will only be able to answer questions about after you have done it.

As such, if you are unable to provide an apt description, your partner will know you didn't do it. Online calendars and reminders. I'm quite fond of Yahoo's calendar system for this. The tasks can be set into the program and it sends you a reminder. Another nice thing about it is you can program in your work schedule so your Dom knows when you're online bdsm relationship work and can thus alter the tasks to fit a work environment. This can also be a way for your Dom to know what you do during your day, etc.

I've seen both real-time and LDR couples doing this, and I myself quite love it. Self-bondage and other self-induced BDSM play. For this please keep in mind BDSM safety. One last word about safety: Beware of predators. Keep us running with your support. SubguidePlus for our latest tips, tutorials and submissive tools! Find more related content. Advertise on Submissive Guide.

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